Before i jump there, i think i can state the hierarchy for my social networks. To put it simple in hierarchy it goes like this :
Bestfriend
|
Close Friend
|
Friend
|
Collegue
|
Barely-know-me
|
Stranger
Well, simple isn't it? And about the habit i spoke of above, it was a habit which makes me think someone too highly. Some simple case, i consider a person as my close friend but in fact he's just some collegue worth. Which makes me told him things that only close friends only know.
Learning from mistakes. A friend of mine, Alyssa Valentina, she told about this kind of thing and also told me not to trust someone 100%. Just told them about 70% and that's it. Because you'll never know what people think of you if they didn't tell you right? She also told me to Never consider someone as your bestfriend before they consider you first. And yes, i've got my lesson for this kind of thing.
Well, lately, on my last holiday, i just made a new friend. Well i don't feel like writing his name here though, let's just call him I. At the last holiday, because we had some things in common (alone and don't have anything to do), we're getting along. Hanging out together and bicycling to Lembang and so on. Well, i had consider him as my close friend because many events on the holiday.
But the fact turns out to be different, as far as i can feel, he doesn't consider me as same as what i consider him. Well i know this sounds so ewww but well, i felt being used by him. A kind of people who only comes to you when he's in need of you but disappear after that. Which makes me reconsider him as my close friend.
But after all, i learned my lesson. I don't really care about hanging out with him again. Just for my info that just like my other friend said, Bintang Widhana, "There is no such thing as forever friend, but there is forever needs".
I think it's enough for now. Just for you, random people who blogwalking to this post, NEVER CONSIDER SOMEONE AS YOUR BESTFRIEND BEFORE THEY CONSIDER YOU FIRST.
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